Frequently Asked Questions and Party Rules
You may be an experienced swinger and have attended many bi parties or you may be a complete beginner and are nervous about what you'd expect at a bi fun club event. Whichever category you are in you should read the below FAQ and the What To Expect page as they will let you know what happens and what is and isn't acceptable behaviour at our events. Although we support freedom of expression our party rules do need to be followed or you will be asked to leave.
. How can I contact the party organisers?
If you have any questions, comments or suggestions about our parties please send an E Mail to [email protected]
• Is there a dress code?
We don't restrict our guests in their choice of clothing but we reserve our right to refuse your entry if you are wearing something dirty or unwashed. If you are in the construction industry or are an outdoor worker please make sure you arrive clean and fresh. Arriving dirty, unclean or smelly may result in you being refused admission.
In the actual play area there is no dress code. You can walk around completely naked, fully clothed or anything in between. You can also bring special party clothes or fetish gear and wear that at the party. You can change at the venue and leave your stuff at our secure, supervised cloakroom. Please note that footwear must be worn at all times in the basement play area. The reason is one of safety, there is a fully licensed bar which uses real glasses so if a breakage occurs we don't want anyone walking around bare footed.
• Are there any lockers and is there a changing room at the venue that can be used?
There are no lockers but we do have a safe, secure and supervised cloakroom with two full time attendants where you can leave your clothes, overcoats, bags or small valuables. At the cloakroom you are given a bag which acan be zipped closed and has a number, you leave your items in this bag and you will be given a wrist band with the same number in order to reclaim the items later. There is a £1 charge for this service. We do advise that you do not take any valuables to the party, if you do so and we cannot be held liable for any loss or damage to anything left unattended. We have a changing area on the first floor which is reserved for ladies and T Girls to change in private . Men who wish to strip or change do so in the basement play area.
• I am single and 100% straight, can I come to your parties?
The answer is No. You have to be at least bi curious or hetroflexible to attend a Bi Fun Club party. Our minimum requirement of being bisexual is someone that doesn’t object to being touched and/or sexually stimulated by a member of their own sex. If you don’t meet that minimum requirement you would not be welcome at one of our parties. We have many regulars at our events and they are very good at spotting a straight man who is only attending to meet and interact with the ladies. if this situation occurs the person will be requested to explain their position and unless their behaviour changes they will be asked to leave.
• I am straight but recently I have become more interested in photos and videos of other men's cocks and would like to touch and maybe suck one, would I be welcome at your party?
Yes you would. The term hetroflexible is used to describe someone who has no emotional attraction to members of their own sex but when it comes to group play they are not concerned with the gender of the person who may be touching them. If you are happy to touch and be touched in a sexual way without worrying about the gender of the other person you will be welcome at our parties.
• I am straight but my partner is bi, can I come to your parties?
We allow this combination to attend Bi Fun Club parties but only with the proviso that the straight member of the couple does not join in any group play without their partner being present.
• What happens when I arrive at the party?
There is a separate section devoted to this subject which will give you lots of information about what to expect. See main menu for link
• What time does the venue open? The daytime party is scheduled for six hours, will there be play at all times or is there socialising or rest times?
The Central Station bar will be open from 1pm on the day of the Bi Fun Club party and you are welcome to arrive any time from 1pm onwards and have a drink in the bar. The Bi Fun Club party itself is held in the downstairs basement area and that won’t open until 1.30pm or 6pm when the party starts. Based on our experience from running parties there will be play throughout the event. We can’t predict who will turn up and at what time so unfortunately we can’t give you any guidance on the “best” time to arrive
• What is the venue like?
Our party space is a basement cruising bar with various side rooms and darkened areas. The venue itself is a regular public licensed bar with a restaurant area but the play area is only accessible by party guests and is 100% discreet. The basement bar will be open so there will be a real club atmosphere with lots of naked socialising and playing while having a drink from the fully stocked licensed bar. The venue is licenced by Camden Council and has all the necessary fire and other certifications
• Is this the same venue that hosts "Sweet Wednesdays"?
Yes it is but we have no business association with Sweet Wednesdays. If you are a T Girl or a T Girl admirer we highly recommend the Sweet Wednesdays events and if meeting T Girls is your main interest then we have no hesitation in saying that Sweet Wednesdays will be the better event for you to attend. To find out more about Sweet Wednesdays you should go to their website www.sweetwednesday.co.uk
• If I attend a Bi Fun Club party and don't like it, can I get my money back?
No event (musical, sporting, theatrical or sexual) will give a refund on this basis. We however are sympathetic if you are unsure about the party format so if you pay your entry fee and when you go to the play area you don't like the set up and immediately return to to check in desk, we will refund your money. This offer only applies if you return within 3 or 4 minutes. If you want to take advantage of this option please advise the person on the check in desk when you arrive.
• I can't make the exact start time is that a problem?
Our parties last for 4 or 6 hours but very few people actually will stay for that amount of time, the average being between 1 and 2 hours. Once you have checked in you can leave and return any time up to the end of the party however the latest time you can check in is 45 minutes before the party finish time. Unfortunately in the past we have found some men who appeared very reasonable and arrived late were very impatient and pushy when they were allowed to enter the party late. It is for the safety and well being of our other guests we will not make exceptions.
• At the end of The Bi Fun Club event is the venue closed?
No. Although the basement play area will be closed the ground floor bar and the upper floor restaurant will stay open for Bi Fun Club guests as well as members of the general public.
• How much does it cost? how do I reserve my place?
All details are on the "Home" tab of this website. No booking or reservation is required, just turn up and pay on the door
• Can I pay by credit card?
Yes, payment can be made by either cash or card. If you pay by card, for discretion purposes the vendor name on your statement will be shown as the word "None"
• I see couples get free entry, Can you tell me more about this offer?
This offer only applies to mixed sex couples. It doesn't apply to a trans/cis combination but if such a couple attends we will allow the trans person free entry and only the single man will be required to pay. Cis ladies are underrepresented at bisex play parties so our free entry for mixed sex couples is one of the ways we operate to ensure there will be a good mix of genders at our events. We don't want this offer abused so if we observe any couple entering and the female half leaves shortly afterwards and the male stays we will ask the male to leave or pay a reduced entry price.
• I am very nervous can you tell me more about the venue and if I have to walk around naked?
Being nervous is a natural reaction to doing anything for the first time. There aren't that many bi parties being held in the London area so you will not be alone in being a newbie to the bi party scene. When you enter the venue you will be in your street clothes and as this is a public area you will be required to remain "decent" while on this level. Once you venture downstairs then the choice of what you keep on is your choice with the only rule being that you must wear something on your feet. There’s no need to be embarrassed about your appearance as you’ll be surrounded by like minded non judgemental men and women. Though you may be nervous when you first enter the venue once you are there and see the diversity of guests you will be put at ease.
• What actually takes place inside the venue when the party starts?
There is no simple answer to this question so to answer it we have added a separate page on this website "What To Expect" which you should read
• I am travelling by car, is there parking close to the party?
Car parking in London is extremely expensive and we strongly advise that if you have the option you travel by public transport. If you are a car owner and frequently come into London by car you will find metered parking close to the venue and several NCP car parks within walking distance. If you google "car parking in N1 9SD" you'll find the options.
• I don't have a car, How can I get to the venue by public transport?
The Central Station Bar is a short walk from Euston, Kings Cross and St Pancras stations all of which have connections to other stations in London and the surrounding areas. There are details on the walking route from the rail station to the venue on the "Bookings" tab of this website.
• I am a T Girl, do I have to arrive fully dressed to get the reduced admission charge?
No you don't. There will be a changing area at the venue you can use and we open the doors around 12.30am for anyone who wants that little bit extra time to get ready.
• What is your definition of a T Girl?
We offer a £10 entry fee for T Girls but please understand that any cross dressing males who just wear panties or similar attire are welcome to attend our parties dressed that way but will be charged as a single male. Management's decision is final on this matter so please don't try and abuse this concession given to the girls that make an effort. There are no firm rules on the subject but here are some of the items we would consider when making a determination (1) Using facial make up (2) Wearing a wig or having an appropriate hair style (3) Wearing a dress or a feminine outfit (4) Having female styled accessories such as jewellery or handbag. (5) No hair on face, chest and legs (6) False or enhanced breasts. A T Girl won’t be required to have all of these attributes but you are unlikely to be granted the £10 admission charge unless you exhibit 3 or 4 out of the six. You should note that anyone who has a beard or significant amount of facial hair will not be considered a T Girl for the purpose of the £10 entry. The organisers of The Bi Fun Club appreciate that a true T Girl can only be defined by their psychological make up and not by any physical attribute but we have to have rules that are easy to administer.
• I am a T Girl but I'm only attracted to and will only interact with cis females or other T Girls, can I attend your events?
Unfortunately we don't consider this to be bisexual as far as our classification is concerned. We appreciate our classifications of T Girls and of their sexuality may not conform with other accepted definitions within the LGBTQ community but they are designed by us solely to ensure the best balance of guests and to ensure everyone can explore the joy of sexual freedom with all genders. T Girls who will not interact with males do not conform with this ideal and just like single straight men they will not be welcome at our events.
• I was assigned the wrong gender at birth and I am currently transitioning, what ticket category should I use?
The classification approach we adopt for all trans categories is based solely on physical characteristics and for the purposes of ticket type we differentiate male and female by the presence or absence of a penis. So for example if you are a trans man but are pre op you will get free entry but post bottom surgery you with be charged £55. We apologise if this approach results in a gender misidentification but it is done as a practical solution and is only for the purposes of determining the ticket price. At the event you are free to present yourself in the way that suits you best and use whatever pronoun you are most comfortable with.
• How many guests are going to be at the party?
We can never tell the exact numbers in advance but we always strive to get a good mixture of participants. A typical party will have an attendance of 50 to 80 people made up of couples, T Girls, single ladies and of course single men. The anticipated split is likely to be approx - 65% men, 23% Ladies and 12% T Girls. The exact ratio and total attendees will be slightly different at each party but we don't believe the deviation will be that significant from the numbers quoted here.
• Will there definitely be ladies at the party?
There will definitely be ladies at each and every Bi Fun Club party. To ensure a good mix of guests we give free admission to all ladies and mixed sex couples. This means that the contribution from single males is higher than it would be otherwise but that is offset by a better mix of guests. We want these parties to be run on a regular basis so we will be ensuring that there will be the right combination of people are on the guest list.
• If I attend a Bi Fun Club Party will I be guaranteed sex?
The answer is No. Any sex that happens at our parties is between consenting adults and this means that everyone has the right to say no to any request. This having been said everyone who attends the parties will be sexually aware and the reason for being there is to have sex with like-minded people. There will be lots and lots of opportunities to have sex for anyone who shows good manners and is respectful.
• Do I have to ask permission to touch someone at the party? What happens if my approach is rejected?
Permission should always be sought for any activity but as you become more confident and are able to read the situation you’ll recognize facial expressions and other signs of acceptance without having to use words. If you are unsure proceed cautiously and don’t be upset if you advance is rejected. Before any sexual contact first ask the person you are interested in and wait for consent. No one at the party should be treated as common property. Consent for any sexual act is required Respect the wish of your prospective partner and never force yourself upon them. No always means No. The reason people will be attending our parties is to have sexual pleasure but during the four hours there will be rest time as well so just be patient.
• I prefer watching rather than participating, is this an option?
Of course it is. You can watch for part or even the whole of the party. Remember this is a no pressure event so if all you are after is to be in the middle of a porn scene and watch the other guests without playing then that will be fine.
• Are condoms and lube available at the party?
There will be a supply of free condoms, lube and wet wipes available but if you have an allergy or particular requirement you should bring your own.
• Are there showers available at the venue.
Unfortunately there are no showers at the venue. There is is a toilet/bathroom with a hand basin and there will be lots of wet wipes but sorry no showers. If you do want to shower there are public shower facilities at Kings Cross station that can be used. They are located by the entrance to platforms 9-11. Opening hours are Monday to Sunday: 07:00 – 21:00. The showers cost £5, which you pay at Excess Baggage, soap included. Towels available with a deposit.
• I am a man. Will there be lots of anal sex between men at the event and will I be expected to kiss other men?
Anal sex is always acceptable between consenting adults at our parties but as anal sex tends to be more of a 1 on 1 activity it isn’t as frequently practised as other forms of sexual expression. Don’t worry if you don’t like anal sex or kissing people of the same sex as neither activity is expected and quite a few bisexuals will have the same preference as you and not want to indulge in either of these activities. Remember No always means No.
• I would like to attend for free as part of a mixed sex couple but it’s only me who will be playing and my partner will just watching. Is that OK?
We give free entry to mixed sex couples on the assumption and hope that both the male and female of the partnership will be playing as after all this is a play party. That being said there is no obligation for anyone to join the play if they don’t feel comfortable and if that’s their preference just watch. One thing we will require however is that the non-playing partner stays in the basement play area with their partner if the other person is playing. A scenario of a couple arriving and only one member of the couple going to the play area is not considered acceptable and would not be allowed as that behaviour would indicate the partnership was only together to take advantage of the free entry concession.
• Can you tell me if Mr X or Ms Y will be attending the next party? I have met Mr X or Ms Y at your last party and got on really well can you let me have their details so I can see them again.
We get these sort of questions asked but the answer is always the same. We don’t give out anyone’s personal details either before or after a party. If you have made a connection with someone at one of our parties it is up to you to get their personal details.
• Is safe sex practised at the parties?
Condoms should be used for penetrative sex. If a condom breaks or comes off, inform the other person immediately so that the situation can be dealt with.
• Are condoms used for oraI sex?
Oral sex can be with or without a condom. It is at the participant's discretion and their decision should be accepted and respected without question or debate. Please note if you are a male and are receiving oral sex you cannot ejaculate in the mouth of the other person without asking their permission and it being granted it in advance. You cannot assume someone by their actions will allow you to cum in their mouth so always ask and accept the answer given. Many very sexually active men and woman have a strong aversion to someone cumming in their mouth and some will have an instant bite reaction if it happens so unless you want teeth marks on your cock (or worse) it is advisable to follow this rule.
• Is there an age limit? I don’t believe I have a desirable body shape is that a problem? Are there any other restrictions ie race, colour, origin etc?
The minimum age for attendance is 21 but there is no upper age limit. At any event there is usually broad age range present, so whatever your age you won’t feel like the ‘odd one out’. If you are lucky enough to look younger, ID will be required for age verification purposes only. Please do not think these parties are for the young and gym fit and not attend because you feel you might be embarrassed, everyone is friendly and not at all pushy. Everyone from 21yrs to 70yrs is welcome and it doesn't matter if you are slim or overweight, good looking or ugly, there will be a wide range of different people from various backgrounds present so there is no need to feel out of place. It's attitude and personality that counts, this party is run by regular people with a high sex drive for other regular people with a high sex drive.
• I am disabled can I come to your party?
Of course you can provided you realise that there are no lifts and the basement can only be accessed via stairs. The party can get crowded so unfortunately it would be difficult (probably impossible) for wheelchair users. We do want to help any disabled guests to attend if it is possible so if you have special needs but are unsure if the venue is suitable please contact us and we can discuss the options etc.
• Can I take photos or video at the party?
No photos or video can be taken at our events. This is a strictly enforced rule and anyone attempting to breach it will be asked to leave immediately without any refund of their entrance fee.
• Can I use my mobile phone at the party?
Mobile phones can not be used in the basement area. You should be aware this rule has been made not because we don’t want you to make phone calls but because all mobile phones have cameras that can be easily used if the unit is switched on and therefore photographs can be taken without the knowledge of the person being photographed. Privacy and confidentiality are vitally important to us and the guests at the party so we never will put people in a position where that trust is broken.
• Can I smoke or vape at the party?
Smoking or Vaping isn't allowed in the basement or main public bar but there is a roof garden and an outside seating area at the venue that can be used.
• Will I be able to get and take drugs at the party?
There is strictly no dealing or using illegal drugs allowed at our events. Offenders will be asked to leave immediately and they will not be allowed to attend any future events.
• Can I buy viagra at the party?
No, we do not sell viagra or anything similar at the party.
• Is any food or drink available at the party?
We do not supply any free drinks or snacks but as the party is held within a licenced bar there are a wide range of beers, spirits and soft drinks available along with snacks. There is also a restaurant at the venue.
• What happens if one of the party rules is broken?
Our guests are most dear to us and we would love to have long-term relationship with them but in the event of a breach of any of our party rules we will be compelled to take action. At the first instance of the breach of rule, our staff will caution the guest and remind them about the party rules. On the second breach or if the breach is of a serious nature the guest will be asked to leave and not allowed to attend any future parties.
If you have a question not answered above please do not hesitate to get in touch.
[email protected]
If you have any questions, comments or suggestions about our parties please send an E Mail to [email protected]
• Is there a dress code?
We don't restrict our guests in their choice of clothing but we reserve our right to refuse your entry if you are wearing something dirty or unwashed. If you are in the construction industry or are an outdoor worker please make sure you arrive clean and fresh. Arriving dirty, unclean or smelly may result in you being refused admission.
In the actual play area there is no dress code. You can walk around completely naked, fully clothed or anything in between. You can also bring special party clothes or fetish gear and wear that at the party. You can change at the venue and leave your stuff at our secure, supervised cloakroom. Please note that footwear must be worn at all times in the basement play area. The reason is one of safety, there is a fully licensed bar which uses real glasses so if a breakage occurs we don't want anyone walking around bare footed.
• Are there any lockers and is there a changing room at the venue that can be used?
There are no lockers but we do have a safe, secure and supervised cloakroom with two full time attendants where you can leave your clothes, overcoats, bags or small valuables. At the cloakroom you are given a bag which acan be zipped closed and has a number, you leave your items in this bag and you will be given a wrist band with the same number in order to reclaim the items later. There is a £1 charge for this service. We do advise that you do not take any valuables to the party, if you do so and we cannot be held liable for any loss or damage to anything left unattended. We have a changing area on the first floor which is reserved for ladies and T Girls to change in private . Men who wish to strip or change do so in the basement play area.
• I am single and 100% straight, can I come to your parties?
The answer is No. You have to be at least bi curious or hetroflexible to attend a Bi Fun Club party. Our minimum requirement of being bisexual is someone that doesn’t object to being touched and/or sexually stimulated by a member of their own sex. If you don’t meet that minimum requirement you would not be welcome at one of our parties. We have many regulars at our events and they are very good at spotting a straight man who is only attending to meet and interact with the ladies. if this situation occurs the person will be requested to explain their position and unless their behaviour changes they will be asked to leave.
• I am straight but recently I have become more interested in photos and videos of other men's cocks and would like to touch and maybe suck one, would I be welcome at your party?
Yes you would. The term hetroflexible is used to describe someone who has no emotional attraction to members of their own sex but when it comes to group play they are not concerned with the gender of the person who may be touching them. If you are happy to touch and be touched in a sexual way without worrying about the gender of the other person you will be welcome at our parties.
• I am straight but my partner is bi, can I come to your parties?
We allow this combination to attend Bi Fun Club parties but only with the proviso that the straight member of the couple does not join in any group play without their partner being present.
• What happens when I arrive at the party?
There is a separate section devoted to this subject which will give you lots of information about what to expect. See main menu for link
• What time does the venue open? The daytime party is scheduled for six hours, will there be play at all times or is there socialising or rest times?
The Central Station bar will be open from 1pm on the day of the Bi Fun Club party and you are welcome to arrive any time from 1pm onwards and have a drink in the bar. The Bi Fun Club party itself is held in the downstairs basement area and that won’t open until 1.30pm or 6pm when the party starts. Based on our experience from running parties there will be play throughout the event. We can’t predict who will turn up and at what time so unfortunately we can’t give you any guidance on the “best” time to arrive
• What is the venue like?
Our party space is a basement cruising bar with various side rooms and darkened areas. The venue itself is a regular public licensed bar with a restaurant area but the play area is only accessible by party guests and is 100% discreet. The basement bar will be open so there will be a real club atmosphere with lots of naked socialising and playing while having a drink from the fully stocked licensed bar. The venue is licenced by Camden Council and has all the necessary fire and other certifications
• Is this the same venue that hosts "Sweet Wednesdays"?
Yes it is but we have no business association with Sweet Wednesdays. If you are a T Girl or a T Girl admirer we highly recommend the Sweet Wednesdays events and if meeting T Girls is your main interest then we have no hesitation in saying that Sweet Wednesdays will be the better event for you to attend. To find out more about Sweet Wednesdays you should go to their website www.sweetwednesday.co.uk
• If I attend a Bi Fun Club party and don't like it, can I get my money back?
No event (musical, sporting, theatrical or sexual) will give a refund on this basis. We however are sympathetic if you are unsure about the party format so if you pay your entry fee and when you go to the play area you don't like the set up and immediately return to to check in desk, we will refund your money. This offer only applies if you return within 3 or 4 minutes. If you want to take advantage of this option please advise the person on the check in desk when you arrive.
• I can't make the exact start time is that a problem?
Our parties last for 4 or 6 hours but very few people actually will stay for that amount of time, the average being between 1 and 2 hours. Once you have checked in you can leave and return any time up to the end of the party however the latest time you can check in is 45 minutes before the party finish time. Unfortunately in the past we have found some men who appeared very reasonable and arrived late were very impatient and pushy when they were allowed to enter the party late. It is for the safety and well being of our other guests we will not make exceptions.
• At the end of The Bi Fun Club event is the venue closed?
No. Although the basement play area will be closed the ground floor bar and the upper floor restaurant will stay open for Bi Fun Club guests as well as members of the general public.
• How much does it cost? how do I reserve my place?
All details are on the "Home" tab of this website. No booking or reservation is required, just turn up and pay on the door
• Can I pay by credit card?
Yes, payment can be made by either cash or card. If you pay by card, for discretion purposes the vendor name on your statement will be shown as the word "None"
• I see couples get free entry, Can you tell me more about this offer?
This offer only applies to mixed sex couples. It doesn't apply to a trans/cis combination but if such a couple attends we will allow the trans person free entry and only the single man will be required to pay. Cis ladies are underrepresented at bisex play parties so our free entry for mixed sex couples is one of the ways we operate to ensure there will be a good mix of genders at our events. We don't want this offer abused so if we observe any couple entering and the female half leaves shortly afterwards and the male stays we will ask the male to leave or pay a reduced entry price.
• I am very nervous can you tell me more about the venue and if I have to walk around naked?
Being nervous is a natural reaction to doing anything for the first time. There aren't that many bi parties being held in the London area so you will not be alone in being a newbie to the bi party scene. When you enter the venue you will be in your street clothes and as this is a public area you will be required to remain "decent" while on this level. Once you venture downstairs then the choice of what you keep on is your choice with the only rule being that you must wear something on your feet. There’s no need to be embarrassed about your appearance as you’ll be surrounded by like minded non judgemental men and women. Though you may be nervous when you first enter the venue once you are there and see the diversity of guests you will be put at ease.
• What actually takes place inside the venue when the party starts?
There is no simple answer to this question so to answer it we have added a separate page on this website "What To Expect" which you should read
• I am travelling by car, is there parking close to the party?
Car parking in London is extremely expensive and we strongly advise that if you have the option you travel by public transport. If you are a car owner and frequently come into London by car you will find metered parking close to the venue and several NCP car parks within walking distance. If you google "car parking in N1 9SD" you'll find the options.
• I don't have a car, How can I get to the venue by public transport?
The Central Station Bar is a short walk from Euston, Kings Cross and St Pancras stations all of which have connections to other stations in London and the surrounding areas. There are details on the walking route from the rail station to the venue on the "Bookings" tab of this website.
• I am a T Girl, do I have to arrive fully dressed to get the reduced admission charge?
No you don't. There will be a changing area at the venue you can use and we open the doors around 12.30am for anyone who wants that little bit extra time to get ready.
• What is your definition of a T Girl?
We offer a £10 entry fee for T Girls but please understand that any cross dressing males who just wear panties or similar attire are welcome to attend our parties dressed that way but will be charged as a single male. Management's decision is final on this matter so please don't try and abuse this concession given to the girls that make an effort. There are no firm rules on the subject but here are some of the items we would consider when making a determination (1) Using facial make up (2) Wearing a wig or having an appropriate hair style (3) Wearing a dress or a feminine outfit (4) Having female styled accessories such as jewellery or handbag. (5) No hair on face, chest and legs (6) False or enhanced breasts. A T Girl won’t be required to have all of these attributes but you are unlikely to be granted the £10 admission charge unless you exhibit 3 or 4 out of the six. You should note that anyone who has a beard or significant amount of facial hair will not be considered a T Girl for the purpose of the £10 entry. The organisers of The Bi Fun Club appreciate that a true T Girl can only be defined by their psychological make up and not by any physical attribute but we have to have rules that are easy to administer.
• I am a T Girl but I'm only attracted to and will only interact with cis females or other T Girls, can I attend your events?
Unfortunately we don't consider this to be bisexual as far as our classification is concerned. We appreciate our classifications of T Girls and of their sexuality may not conform with other accepted definitions within the LGBTQ community but they are designed by us solely to ensure the best balance of guests and to ensure everyone can explore the joy of sexual freedom with all genders. T Girls who will not interact with males do not conform with this ideal and just like single straight men they will not be welcome at our events.
• I was assigned the wrong gender at birth and I am currently transitioning, what ticket category should I use?
The classification approach we adopt for all trans categories is based solely on physical characteristics and for the purposes of ticket type we differentiate male and female by the presence or absence of a penis. So for example if you are a trans man but are pre op you will get free entry but post bottom surgery you with be charged £55. We apologise if this approach results in a gender misidentification but it is done as a practical solution and is only for the purposes of determining the ticket price. At the event you are free to present yourself in the way that suits you best and use whatever pronoun you are most comfortable with.
• How many guests are going to be at the party?
We can never tell the exact numbers in advance but we always strive to get a good mixture of participants. A typical party will have an attendance of 50 to 80 people made up of couples, T Girls, single ladies and of course single men. The anticipated split is likely to be approx - 65% men, 23% Ladies and 12% T Girls. The exact ratio and total attendees will be slightly different at each party but we don't believe the deviation will be that significant from the numbers quoted here.
• Will there definitely be ladies at the party?
There will definitely be ladies at each and every Bi Fun Club party. To ensure a good mix of guests we give free admission to all ladies and mixed sex couples. This means that the contribution from single males is higher than it would be otherwise but that is offset by a better mix of guests. We want these parties to be run on a regular basis so we will be ensuring that there will be the right combination of people are on the guest list.
• If I attend a Bi Fun Club Party will I be guaranteed sex?
The answer is No. Any sex that happens at our parties is between consenting adults and this means that everyone has the right to say no to any request. This having been said everyone who attends the parties will be sexually aware and the reason for being there is to have sex with like-minded people. There will be lots and lots of opportunities to have sex for anyone who shows good manners and is respectful.
• Do I have to ask permission to touch someone at the party? What happens if my approach is rejected?
Permission should always be sought for any activity but as you become more confident and are able to read the situation you’ll recognize facial expressions and other signs of acceptance without having to use words. If you are unsure proceed cautiously and don’t be upset if you advance is rejected. Before any sexual contact first ask the person you are interested in and wait for consent. No one at the party should be treated as common property. Consent for any sexual act is required Respect the wish of your prospective partner and never force yourself upon them. No always means No. The reason people will be attending our parties is to have sexual pleasure but during the four hours there will be rest time as well so just be patient.
• I prefer watching rather than participating, is this an option?
Of course it is. You can watch for part or even the whole of the party. Remember this is a no pressure event so if all you are after is to be in the middle of a porn scene and watch the other guests without playing then that will be fine.
• Are condoms and lube available at the party?
There will be a supply of free condoms, lube and wet wipes available but if you have an allergy or particular requirement you should bring your own.
• Are there showers available at the venue.
Unfortunately there are no showers at the venue. There is is a toilet/bathroom with a hand basin and there will be lots of wet wipes but sorry no showers. If you do want to shower there are public shower facilities at Kings Cross station that can be used. They are located by the entrance to platforms 9-11. Opening hours are Monday to Sunday: 07:00 – 21:00. The showers cost £5, which you pay at Excess Baggage, soap included. Towels available with a deposit.
• I am a man. Will there be lots of anal sex between men at the event and will I be expected to kiss other men?
Anal sex is always acceptable between consenting adults at our parties but as anal sex tends to be more of a 1 on 1 activity it isn’t as frequently practised as other forms of sexual expression. Don’t worry if you don’t like anal sex or kissing people of the same sex as neither activity is expected and quite a few bisexuals will have the same preference as you and not want to indulge in either of these activities. Remember No always means No.
• I would like to attend for free as part of a mixed sex couple but it’s only me who will be playing and my partner will just watching. Is that OK?
We give free entry to mixed sex couples on the assumption and hope that both the male and female of the partnership will be playing as after all this is a play party. That being said there is no obligation for anyone to join the play if they don’t feel comfortable and if that’s their preference just watch. One thing we will require however is that the non-playing partner stays in the basement play area with their partner if the other person is playing. A scenario of a couple arriving and only one member of the couple going to the play area is not considered acceptable and would not be allowed as that behaviour would indicate the partnership was only together to take advantage of the free entry concession.
• Can you tell me if Mr X or Ms Y will be attending the next party? I have met Mr X or Ms Y at your last party and got on really well can you let me have their details so I can see them again.
We get these sort of questions asked but the answer is always the same. We don’t give out anyone’s personal details either before or after a party. If you have made a connection with someone at one of our parties it is up to you to get their personal details.
• Is safe sex practised at the parties?
Condoms should be used for penetrative sex. If a condom breaks or comes off, inform the other person immediately so that the situation can be dealt with.
• Are condoms used for oraI sex?
Oral sex can be with or without a condom. It is at the participant's discretion and their decision should be accepted and respected without question or debate. Please note if you are a male and are receiving oral sex you cannot ejaculate in the mouth of the other person without asking their permission and it being granted it in advance. You cannot assume someone by their actions will allow you to cum in their mouth so always ask and accept the answer given. Many very sexually active men and woman have a strong aversion to someone cumming in their mouth and some will have an instant bite reaction if it happens so unless you want teeth marks on your cock (or worse) it is advisable to follow this rule.
• Is there an age limit? I don’t believe I have a desirable body shape is that a problem? Are there any other restrictions ie race, colour, origin etc?
The minimum age for attendance is 21 but there is no upper age limit. At any event there is usually broad age range present, so whatever your age you won’t feel like the ‘odd one out’. If you are lucky enough to look younger, ID will be required for age verification purposes only. Please do not think these parties are for the young and gym fit and not attend because you feel you might be embarrassed, everyone is friendly and not at all pushy. Everyone from 21yrs to 70yrs is welcome and it doesn't matter if you are slim or overweight, good looking or ugly, there will be a wide range of different people from various backgrounds present so there is no need to feel out of place. It's attitude and personality that counts, this party is run by regular people with a high sex drive for other regular people with a high sex drive.
• I am disabled can I come to your party?
Of course you can provided you realise that there are no lifts and the basement can only be accessed via stairs. The party can get crowded so unfortunately it would be difficult (probably impossible) for wheelchair users. We do want to help any disabled guests to attend if it is possible so if you have special needs but are unsure if the venue is suitable please contact us and we can discuss the options etc.
• Can I take photos or video at the party?
No photos or video can be taken at our events. This is a strictly enforced rule and anyone attempting to breach it will be asked to leave immediately without any refund of their entrance fee.
• Can I use my mobile phone at the party?
Mobile phones can not be used in the basement area. You should be aware this rule has been made not because we don’t want you to make phone calls but because all mobile phones have cameras that can be easily used if the unit is switched on and therefore photographs can be taken without the knowledge of the person being photographed. Privacy and confidentiality are vitally important to us and the guests at the party so we never will put people in a position where that trust is broken.
• Can I smoke or vape at the party?
Smoking or Vaping isn't allowed in the basement or main public bar but there is a roof garden and an outside seating area at the venue that can be used.
• Will I be able to get and take drugs at the party?
There is strictly no dealing or using illegal drugs allowed at our events. Offenders will be asked to leave immediately and they will not be allowed to attend any future events.
• Can I buy viagra at the party?
No, we do not sell viagra or anything similar at the party.
• Is any food or drink available at the party?
We do not supply any free drinks or snacks but as the party is held within a licenced bar there are a wide range of beers, spirits and soft drinks available along with snacks. There is also a restaurant at the venue.
• What happens if one of the party rules is broken?
Our guests are most dear to us and we would love to have long-term relationship with them but in the event of a breach of any of our party rules we will be compelled to take action. At the first instance of the breach of rule, our staff will caution the guest and remind them about the party rules. On the second breach or if the breach is of a serious nature the guest will be asked to leave and not allowed to attend any future parties.
If you have a question not answered above please do not hesitate to get in touch.
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